When someone tells me they're struggling with digestive symptoms, I know there's often a much bigger story behind those words.
Gas might mean they're terrified of sitting through a meeting at work.
Uncontrollable diarrhea might mean they can't leave the house, get their kids ready for school, or make it through an ordinary morning without worrying about the bathroom.
Abdominal pain might mean canceling plans again. Nausea might mean being unable to make breakfast for the family. Bloating might mean another evening spent at home because they're too uncomfortable to go anywhere.
Life doesn't stop asking things of you just because you're sick.
I know that because I've lived it.
I stopped going to barbecues and parties because I couldn't eat what everyone else was eating. Eventually, I stopped being invited to some of those gatherings.
People don't always see the suffering. They see someone who's tired, someone who's missed work again, someone who cancels plans, or someone who doesn't seem interested in participating anymore.
They don't see what happens behind closed doors.
And sometimes, the hardest part is feeling like no one understands.
That's why I don't look at digestive problems as a list of symptoms to check off. I think about the person experiencing them and everything those symptoms may be taking away.
You don't need to have Crohn's disease, ulcerative colitis, or any particular diagnosis to belong here.
You want to participate in your own life again.
And that's what Gut-Friendly Living means to me.